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Friday, October 10, 2008Travels againWow, has it been this long since I blogged here? We have moved again. This time from AL to NC. We arrived in July. What is it with us and moving during heat waves? ;) So once again, its a new home, a new city, new schools, new friends, and new issues. Recently it was gas shortages. That was not fun. This is just one more push for me to be self-sufficient. I am listening! Be blessed | 0 comments | Link 2008-Oct-7The Biblical Basis for Homeschooling Christian Children ~ Pt. 5 ~ A Battleground for the Minds of Our ChildrenPosted in Associate's Thesis 2008A Battleground for the Minds of Our Children “Jesus said to His disciples: ‘Things that cause people to sin are bound to come, but woe to that person through which they come. It would be better for him to be thrown into the sea with a millstone tied around his neck than for him to cause one of these little ones to sin. So watch yourselves.’” (Luke 17:1-3) John Dewey was a very out-spoken prophet for the anti-God public school system. Not only did he not want God entering through the doors of our schools, but God’s absolutes, God’s morals and principles would put a wrench in his plans for our youth. There is no room for the God or anything to do with His kingdom. “Every teacher should realize the dignity of his calling; that he is a social servant set apart for the maintenance of proper social order and the securing of the right social growth…In this way the teacher is always the prophet of the true god and the usherer of the true kingdom of god.”[1] [emphasis mine] And again, just in case you didn’t understand the first time, he added this for good measure: “Faith in the prayer-hearing God is an unproved and out-moded faith. There is no God and there is no soul…There is no room for fixed, natural law or moral absolutes.”[2] Oh, but there is more. Horace Mann and John Dewey were certainly not the only ones to take this point of view. They are merely standing at the head of the line of our modern school system. More recently, Paul Blanshard, a writer for The Humanist magazine even hinted that even though For anyone who doubts, Blanshard was not the first person to think this way. Adolph Hitler once said, “Let me control the textbooks, and I will control And let us not forget about this generation’s leader of the pack: The National Education Association. Dr. John Goodland wrote a report for the NEA in which he said, “Our goal is behavioral change. The majority of our youth still hold to the values of their parents and if we do not resocialize them to accept change, our society may decay.”[6] [emphasis mine] Reading, writing and arithmetic have had to make way and be replaced by a new value system. Values clarification seems to be the order of the day whether parents want it be or not. (Remember the outcome of the Ninth Circuit Court’s decision.) “Values Clarification.” It has the sound of the educational system desiring nothing more than to help our youngsters get a handle on right and wrong, doesn’t it? Mary Pride, in her book “The Way Home,” is not one known to beat around the bush. She cuts right to the chase as she puts it this way: “…as the public schools are demanding the right to indoctrinate children in values that may be directly contrary to the parents’. Sex education courses are designed to brainwash children into accepting homosexuality and fornication as ‘valid forms of sexual expression.’ Values clarification classes systematically destroy the Biblical concepts of an absolute right and an absolute wrong. One-world government programs in Social Studies are meant to destroy patriotism, while the study of ‘women’s role in today’s society’ is a front for indoctrination in feminism. Economics courses teach socialism; English teachers assign pornography as required reading; even my high-school gym class featured instruction in occult Yoga techniques.” Even though I graduated from high school in 1977, I can personally verify nearly everything she listed. In my own experience, my Psychology teacher required us to lay on mats hooked up to monitors that measured our bio rhythms. All in the name of progressive learning. Mann and Dewey would have been so proud. [1] John Dewey, My Pedagogic Creed ( [2] John Dewey, Characters and Etlents, Popular Essays in Social and Political Philosophy, Vol. II (New York: Holt, 1929), 515 [3] Paul Blanshard, “Three Cheers for Our [4] William Shirer, Rise and Fall of the Third Reich (New York, Simon and Schester, 1960), 255 [5] John Dunphy, The Humanist, January/February 1983 [6] Dr. John Goodland, Report to the National Education Association: Schooling for the Future (no date given) To Be Continuted... Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<>< | 0 comments | Link Tuesday, October 7, 2008TuesdayIts another crisp cool morning in Alabama. I have a messy kitchen to clean up this morning, I was simply lazy after the JV game let out at 8:45. Yesterday's dinner was potato soup with bacon, fried okra, and homemade biscuits. The potato soup had heavy whipping cream I had left over from something else, I cubed the potatoes, boiled them tender, drained, and then added 2 C of 2% mild and 1 C cream along with garlic, butter, pepper, and a wee bit of onion. They liked it alot, it was very rich and thick. I am doing Southbeach, so I couldn't have any of what I did for dinner so I had what I could have. Apparently last night it rained here lightly, which is good, the sun is not out yet today, its overcast and cloudy. Dh and I discussed more the desire to move from town and find land (very small 2-5 acres) and begin the process of living the way we prefer (as we did before) We will most likely stay here 2 years so son finishes high school, but even that isn't concrete....he prefers a smaller school too. It seems impossible from where we are, with the housing market where it is, but God is God and he has given us each this desire, so we shall see His work first hand. I have a writing project due by Thursday for a writer I ghostwrite for. It is not a tedious writing project but new software for the product has me dreading it, so this afternoon I will knock that out....nothing like getting something you dread off the table! Tonight is family night so we'll be having a family friendly meal such as spaghetti and then play a board game together for the evening then early to bed. God is good and we are blessed! Sweetie | 1 comments | Link 2008-Oct-6The Simple Woman's Daybook ~ #3 ~ 10/6/08Posted in The Simple Woman DaybookFor Today...
I am wearing...jeans, one of my many comfy, cozy Lakeside hoodies, hair in a headband and bare feet.
Where it all begain...24 years ago TODAY!! Be sure to join The Simple Woman's Daybook by clicking on the icon at the top! Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<>< | 3 comments | Link Monday, October 6, 2008TimeIsn't it amazing how little time truly each chore takes? Lately I've played a game with myself on what to do each "run" In the amount of time my coffee pot brews two cups, the counter can be washed down, or the dishwasher unloaded. In the time a load washes on light load I can sweep the front hall and porch and kitchen. In a quick trip while warming up coffee again later (50 seconds) the hall bathroom can be counter wiped. I so imagine all of these taking so much longer. Its beautiful here today...in Northern Alabama and I so want to get the house spiffy so I can go outside and enjoy the day a little while at lunch. We have a patio table and chairs we rarely use, but today its so the right temperature and niceness to take daughter for a patio lunch outside and enjoy visiting there for an hour or so before school work. To "be" in the moment of this life, that is what I am trying to be today. To enjoy knowing I am spiffing up for the joy of a clean kitchen, to smell fresh laundry and know they (the children and husband) find it in their drawers easily done without search....to enjoy the beauty of a cleared table with apples in the basket for them later. You know, of all the things I have grown up with and had as well as have now, the most expensive things are not what I look on fondly, its the crisp biscuit and homemade jam with a loving relative, its the joy on son's face when he sees homemade chicken noodle soup, its the fun baking with daughter....and the blessing of a man who appreciates dinner cooking for him when he gets home. These are simply blessings that I do not want to overlook my ability to give them....God has so blessed us each one, and my focus is on those blessings today and not on the lack I so fleshly look for sometimes.... God is so good . | 1 comments | Link Monday, October 6, 2008Things around the homesteadPosted in Around the HomesteadOk, still don't know why the camera didn't want to upload to the computer...or why the computer didn't want it to, but that's technology for you. I've played and reloaded and rebooted and what-have-you, and finally, this time, it just sort of worked. Here's the assorted odd pictures of the last many days here: LOL...yes, basically a useless picture...but it was supposed to be here for the day I baked the pumpkin bread and raisin pumpkin snack cake. And yes, of course I buy butter in that huge container....doesn't everyone? My goodness, what other size would there be for a large family?How do you learn to ride a bike? Well, you talk your older brother into letting you be the first to ride his new bike, then you get on and let him shove....er, push you gently....across the front yard. Note to my children: you might want to find a new place to test your bike riding skills. There is a slope to the front yard in that particular area, and it heads straight into the mulch pile and timber line. ![]() ![]() ![]() This is Wild Child, Jacob...with Abigail there in blue, and KatiAnne on the bike....totally forgetting to even pedal...or steer. Here we have Miss Emily trying to coax the chickens into coming closer for a visit. She poked her hand into the fence and wiggled her fingers, calling them...chickee, chickee. As soon as they started over toward her, she liked to have pulled the fence down yaking her hand out so quickly. ![]() ![]() And the new addition to the homestead...and still unnamed officially...The Buddy Dog :o) ![]() He is a Great Pyrenese (or however you spell that...it never looks right to me). According to our friend who got him at his auction, he's about 3 months old. But goodness is he huge for a mere 3 months old! Here he is with Matthew...and our blind goat...doesn't he look awfuly big for 3 months? Maybe it's just me. I'm not very familiar with their growth patterns and all. I know they are to be large dogs, but at 3 months, I guess I thought he'd be more 'puppy' sized or something. ![]() ![]() ![]() As to being 'protection' for the goats, well, I don't know about that. He's rather skittish with them and tries to pick his places wherever they aren't. And our 'seeing' goat is a bit of a pill with other animals in her pen. She all but killed the poor black puppies that grew up with them. The male is blind in one eye and won't go near the pen now. The female always did have a bit more gumption, but even she chooses her battles with that seeing goat. Yeah -- that one there, staring at you, with a touch of attitude....that's the seeing eye goat :o) We bought her as a companion for the blind goat. But she's full of attitude...spit and vinegar I think is the old saying. That's definitely her.| 0 comments | Link Monday, October 6, 2008A serene Saturday & Sunday afternoonPosted in Around the Homestead![]() Here are the photos from yesterday. The children built a fort. Well, it's an encampment of sorts, really. It's Boonesboro...or in our case, Smithsboro. The children love watching the old television series Daniel Boone. Emily sings Daniel Boone was a man....a biiiiiggggg maaaannnnn.... all day, just out of the blue. And easily switches between that and Victory in Jesus or Jesus Loves Me. She has rather eclectic singing choices, I know. This is the beginning of our fabricated chicken house, actually. It's just a cattle panel arched over a frame. We'll move the chickens around the garden area with it once it's finished. Well, maybe...looks like I may not be getting this one back any time soon: ![]() ![]() And the laundry that was left to wait on Smithsboro's completion... ![]() And, I just thought this photo turned out nice. It's Miss Dimples, our KatiAnne, enjoying Smithsboro's outdoor cafe... ![]() She wanted Grandma to see her :o) | 2 comments | Link Saturday, October 4, 200810 Commandments for Every ChristianWe could all certainly use far more of this in our churches today and a lot less of the 'Christian play' that goes on. • DON’T IDEALIZE the church – it’s glorious, not because it’s perfect (after all, you’re in it!), but because it’s being redeemed.
• DON’T CRITICIZE your fellow-believers anytime or the pastor (especially never ever before or after a Sunday service: the Devil’s already doing that; don’t you help him). • DON’T POLARIZE in church meetings or committees. ‘I don’t agree’ is very negative: try ‘Is there perhaps another way of looking at this?’ • DON’T OSTRACIZE people whose psychological ‘chemistry’ is different to yours, or who do not see things your way. Be Christian, and greet them warmly, and pray with them anyway. • DON’T IDOLIZE the pastor or any other leader: we are all fellow- strugglers and we all have feet of clay. • DON’T MONOPOLIZE conversations: be that kind of rare person who is an empathetic listener. • DON’T ORGANIZE anything ‘off your own bat’. Initiative is good: initiative plus collaboration plus accountability is better. • DON’T HOMOGENIZE. Talk to people who are not your cronies (even tax-collectors and sinners do that). Accept people who are not like you theologically. After all, God’s truth may include both your and their understandings! • Above all, DON’T VERBALIZE your frustration or negativity about the church to others: it is sure to discourage them. Do it with the Lord, a spiritual director or counselor, and possibly, after much prayer, to a responsible leader. The devil is very clever: he puts words into our mouth like: ‘Would you (my friend) pray with me about the problem I have with...’ • Instead REALIZE that the Church is loved by Christ, so be patient with each other: the Lord hasn’t finished with any of us yet! | 1 comments | Link 2008-Oct-3Pets are Family, Too!Posted in On Our Family HomesteadMy dear blog friend, Amy (Simplefolk ~~ a MUST READ blog, by-the-way!!), posted about losing her sweet dog that used to be her grandpa's. That losing their Rosie was a milestone of sorts as she had belonged to her loving grandpa. It brought back memories - good and sad - about our dear Hickory that we lost at age 10 back in January from liver cancer. He was "our boy" and I still think of him daily. Even though we now have our cute little Maggie (a "big girl" at 10 whole months and all of about 10 lbs., now!), I still miss Hickory. I've had dogs all my life and, as any pet owner knows, as much as we love them all there are a couple in our lives that are just special. That was Hickory. Maggie is doing a wonderful job of playing her way right into those empty parts of our hearts, so we're hoping that she will be just as speical as Hickory.
Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<>< | 3 comments | Link Friday, October 3, 2008The Attack on MenAll I will say to this is Amen. If you can't see our society totally wrapped up in this, you need to pull off the blinders and take a really good look around you. We don't have many MEN in our society today. We don't have many LEADERS in our society. And, sadly, we aren't working to change that in our up and coming young men and boys either. THE ATTACK ON MEN: Every television show depicts men as idiots, buffoons, or evil monsters. Satan wants to reach women because they are more easily deceived. The only obstacle to his subversion of women is men. His attack on men is primarily to remove any credibility or influence they have over women. The effectiveness of this campaign is shown in the TV program “The Red Green Show”. In this show there is a motto for men that is repeated with a resigned shrug, “I am a man...I can change...If I have to...I guess.” Young men today may not even know that the pattern of male submission that is prevalent today is an aberration. It has never existed before in the history of the world. Men were created to take care of families. Women were created to be taken care of. “Women’s liberation” is a communist term for the destruction of families. Liberation implies a struggle against oppression. The communist “liberation” movements have all been armed rebellion against governments that oppose their revolution. ![]() It is important to recognize that revolutionary and political terms are used to demonize traditional families and family practice. The “liberation” that is implied is not against men, but against the God created order of life. Women are to be liberated from families and made worker bees in the corporate hive. In the communist model, women are not mothers or wives, but workers. Workers exist to serve the state. Men today do not have wives or mothers, just fellow workers. Men are told that this is the natural order of things and any suggestion of the “old way” is an insult to women and must not be tolerated. Men are told to accept the new status of women. Men are bullied into acquiescence with this rape of our culture and exploitation of women. It is sad that Satan has gotten women to be the loudest defenders of the attack upon women. It can be helpful to examine some of the specific ways men have been reduced to silent and sometimes willing partners in the exploitation of women. 1. Higher education. Men were told that only smart people in universities were educated enough to have any authority to speak to issues concerning their families. Fields such as anthropology, sociology, psychology, social work, and other phony “science” have been used to stifle objection. 2. Liberal religion. Most churches have been completely subverted to worldly perspectives in advance of the more direct attack on men. When men turned to their churches to help fight the direct attack, they only found that the churches had already “gone over to the enemy”. 3. Media. Men are portrayed as crazed killers, bullies, irresponsible, unreliable, drunken violent abusers. Satan does not allow a picture of quiet kindness and strength. Satan will never allow real men who lead their families with love to be seen. The imprint of media is a stain on all of us. More pervasive than the worst Korean War brainwashing, we are saturated to our core with Satanic images, frames of reference, and modes of thinking. 4. Elementary education. The educational system has been one of the greatest tools Satan has used to homogenize men into a submissive mold so that they will not object to the changes being brought forth in our society. As boys they are continuously told to be quiet and sit down, they are learning to stifle their natural inclinations. A primary purpose of the elementary classroom is to break the spirit of young men. 5. Elevation of sport. Boys are told that if they have to be restless then they can play sports. There is nothing so sad as to see someone whose whole life is reduced to this narrow mode of expression. Some men become so occupied with sports, it becomes the only vehicle they have to communicate with others, like the POWs who would communicate by tapping out a code. ![]() 6. Withdrawal. Satan is familiar with the most common response of men to situations of discomfort, they withdraw. By making life increasingly alien to men, he forces them out of areas he wants to control. The percentage of women in universities is increasing dramatically. Most men cannot feel comfortable in the radically political, and fervently hostile climate of campus life. Even for men who want to lead their families, they do not know how to meet the frustrating resistance from family members already held captive by the world. These men often seek divorce when they should be seeking knowledge and wisdom. 7. Self-indulgence. For centuries Satan had to rely on alcohol and adultery as his main tools to subvert morality. However, by careful planning and timing he was able to introduce abortion, the drug culture, birth control, and the sexual revolution all within a few years. We now have a climate where this is an accepted way of life. However, while some are dragged down to complete degradation, others (by God’s grace) resist the pull of consuming sensual pleasure and see the emptiness and waste of such a life. Many Christian pioneers come out of the depths of sin to the light of truth and joy of knowing real love. There is a way to fight back or at least resist these pervasive Satanic influences. 1. Become a Christian. There is a supernatural war going on all around us. Satan is allowed for a little while longer to rule over the earth. The Bible says that those who are not Christians are “held captive to do his will”. Being a Christian connects you to the winning side in this war and provides the means of being pulled out of a spiral of destruction. 2. Grow in truth. Satan achieves most of his success through our failures. If we draw close to God and gain wisdom and understanding, we are able to reduce the number of times we are deceived. The Bible says, “Greater is He who is in you, than he who is in the world”. 3. Acknowledge humility. Most men do not like the feeling that they do not have the answers or need to get advice or help from another person. The Christian life cannot be lived without humility. Men need to learn that courage is undertaking difficult or unpleasant action because of necessity. 4. Find a mentor. God provides those with wisdom who can give advice and provide encouragement. An ally in the fight against worldly corruption can be an essential part of a successful resistance to these corrupting influences. There are many poor and false teachers, so one should be careful. 5. Abandon error. Satan loves to isolate people in a shell of pride. A woman can raise a clenched fist demanding the “right” to be sexually exploited, killed her babies, and be left alone in her old age. No one will be able to convince her she has been duped because she has been inoculated against any suggestion of error. In a similar way men become encased in destructive prisons of error and humility is the key to escape. 6. Withdraw from diversion. Many children grow up in homes where they learn quickly that the father’s desire to watch television is more important than anything the child might have to say. Our recreations, entertainments, hobbies, and pleasures all act to turn us from our responsibilities. We need to understand the damage that we cause others by our selfishness. 7. Character is more important than performance. Men often focus on what they can do and how well they can do it. They tend to see their worth in terms of their value to “get things done”. This reinforces a materialistic and utilitarian view of the world. The Christian pioneer is understanding that all that we do is of God and there is no room for boasting. As we grow closer to God and value what He values, we learn that a humble and loving heart is infinitely more valuable that job proficiency. We need to turn our vision from the world. The images we get from the world only enslave us. We need to turn towards Christ. From Him we gain truth, wisdom, and understanding. With the truth, we can build strong families free from the degradation and corruption of the world. | 1 comments | Link { Last Page } { Page 1 of 5 } { Next Page } |
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