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• 2008-Dec-3 - The Trap of Virtual/Charter Schools

Posted By Kim Wolf<>< in Homeschooling

OH MY WORD!!  I just read one of the best blog posts on the trap of Virtual/Charter schools that I've read in a long time (and didn't write myself!  HAHA!!).  This came from http://ladyofvirtue.blogspot.com.  She is the mother of 14 w/#15 on the way and has homeschooled them all.  I HIGHLY recommend her blog - full of wisdom and grace.  I'm posting her entry about Virtual/Charter schools below and request that not only YOU read it, but link it to your own blog, or copy/paste it onto your own blog (and give her the credit, of course) and tell everyone you can to read this.  It's excellent!

Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<><

Virtual Schooling

tuesday, dec. 2, 2008

I live in a largely blue-collar town. There are no mansions or super affluent people that make up our community. The families that choose to be "traditional", with the daddy as the breadwinner, struggle. Lots of homeschooling families that I know here have had trouble even affording a computer.

In a community like ours, virtual schooling where the government sends a family a computer, pays for internet use, and supplies all sorts of glossy, colorful curricula and even science and craft supplies, is just too much of a temptation.

When our state first began to offer such programs, I can remember the glowing reports of all of the "goodies" that were sent--it was like Christmas! Everything needed was provided, including scissors and craft paper, and seeds for growing things. Mothers who before had been wringing their hands wondering how they were going to afford the Saxon Math series were now almost care-free.

But there was a catch.

Someone has said that nothing in life is truly "free". With all of the goodies and the ease of knowing someone else was in charge came a large price. Instead of worries over buying supplies and curricula, now the mothers had a heavy burden placed on them every day. They had to coerce and nag and bite their fingernails over getting the work done that was required--a whole boat-load of extra fact-cramming and busy-work that made it almost impossible for anyone to have a good life, especially for the mother who had even 3-4 children on different levels. Instead of having their lives simplified, they were complicated beyond comprehension, and their children were being harmed in the process and turned into drones who hated anything to do with "learning".

The most unfortunate thing of all was that most mothers were convinced that this sort of government-sponsored slavery was what homeschooling was all about! Many who were already feeling overwhelmed about teaching their own children became convinced, after allowing the state to muck with things, that homeschooling was impossible and horrid. So, they gave up.

But learning is not a super-complicated thing that only professionals know how to do!

Our children were born to us completely helpless--they could not even hold their own heads up! Somehow, with our encouragement, they learned to walk and talk and feed themselves. Children, even in some of the most impoverished conditions, learn to do these things, unless they are ill or haven't any food to eat.

Why do children learn these things? Is it because they are constantly nagged, or they have been through the right "programs"? No. Children learn these things because they want to and they need to. The parents are there to facilitate and encourage.

Now here is the secret that those who run teaching colleges and publish curricula and make their living on the supposition of universal idiocy do not want you to know:

TEACHING CHILDREN IS NOT DFFICULT--THEY ALREADY WANT TO LEARN!

I once checked out a magazine published for teachers from the library, thinking I could glean something of value for my own family. An article was written therein about teaching composition to middle-school students. I could not believe the amount of verbage it took--paragraph upon paragraph of evidence and studies and then the methodology that took pages to explain. What a waste!

Writing is just an extension of language, another form of communication. When it is taught in this context, it no longer seems mystical or complex. Good writing is learned by reading the good writing of others--with reading aloud, discussion, and application.

The same goes for the other subjects. Math is a sort of communication, it is the communication of the Creator to His creation--that there is order and care. Science is best described as the "thinking of God's thoughts after Him". The wonder of this planet and the universe is the only catalyst needed. Once the appetite has been whetted, a parent need only to watch a child take off like a rocket-ship (and be willing to enjoy the adventure).

Of course, you can't enjoy the wonderful adventure of discovery with your child if every day is prescribed and written down. The time and energy you would normally have to explore and discover is all taken up by the reading of droll, dumbed-down texts, numerous questions to be answered by rote understanding, canned experiments and the like.

Yes, there are times when a little rote learning can be valuable, but not as an all-encompassing program. The teaching of facts should be likened to handing out tools that a skilled craftsman, the child, can use to create and discover further. Rote learning should never become the end, but the means. We should not be so much concerned with turning out children who can win at Trivial Pursuit as much as we should be concerned with raising children who can take the information in any situation, analyze it, and come up with wise conclusions and solutions.

I do not write theory here; I myself have seen the proven examples, and not just among my own children.

But the public schooling industry, and it is a great part of our economy, does not want you and I to know just how simple teaching and learning really is. Just think of how many meetings and conferences would have to be canceled. Whole political commmitees would have to be disbanded. We would see a lot of educational phd's flipping burgers, and whole educational supply industries woud go belly-up.

Besides all of this, those who desire power over our population would be the saddest of all, because people of America would once again, as in the crazy times of our inception, realize just how many choices they have, and would develop the intestinal fortitude to pursue those choices. I personally believe that it would allow Chrisitanity to return once again as the underlying foundation of our Republic, as parents would be allowed to pass on their Judeo-Christain values in a personal way to the next generation.

But you won't read this in the leaflets sent out to entice you. They will act as your friend, and say how they understand that you feel unsure and intimidated. But they are not friendly. They only wish to use your own fears to convince you that you can not do it on your own.

But, with God's grace and help,

YOU CAN!!!!!!
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• 2008-Dec-2 - Fortune Cookie Wisdom, Fried Chicken Dreams, and Goodwill Bargains

Posted By Sugar Bend Farms
I have a confession to make


I can't fry...

I can fry catfish okay, but I do that in a fryer, so that doesn't count...



If it is in a pan, I can't fry it.
The problem is my batter won't stay on...


I have read how to remedy that and it still doesn't work for me.

It isn't because I didn't learn. I took four years of home-ec in high school and


My mom fried everything we ever ate, not really, but mostly...


We were the fried meat kind of people, at least they were..are still


But me, well, I am more of a bake, braise, boil, saute, steam, broil, blacken,
anything but fry...kind of gal.


Frying doesn't really do much for me.


But with that said, there are times when frying is just want you want.



Like say fried chicken...


All kids like fried chicken, and I don't really want to have to drive down to
Popeye's every timethe kids want fried chicken.
Even though I am sure they wish I would,

especially after they see my poor excuse for fried chicken.

Tonight I was in a daring mood and decided to try it again.

I pulled a bag of chicken parts from the freezer and thawed them.

Then I put milk into the bag for the chicken to soak in for a while.






I prepared my flour, adding Tony's, pepper, salt with a dash of garlic powder.





I pulled out the trusty cast iron pan and added my oil.




I coated each piece very heavily with the flour mixture and dropped them into the hot oil.

I waited, and after I felt it had browned enough on one side I

turned it over and let it brown on the reverse side.

Once that was done I turn the heat down some and continued to turn and cook.

And tonight, I guess the mood was right, and the stars aligned just so, because

my crispy didn't fall of of the meat!



Grant it, they were a little, wee bit browner than I like, but hey, there was

crispy on my fried chicken! Isn't that what really matters?


What does this have to do with anything?

Well I asked myself that very thing before I sat down to write about it.

I suppose it means that sometimes, things just work out, sometimes they don't. Just because it never worked out for you before, doesn't mean it won't at some point happen.

What does all of that mean?

Well maybe I feel like sharing a little "fortune cookie wisdom" tonight.

Maybe I just have to much time on my hands and I am just rambling...

Here is a picture of Noah in his new pj's... Isn't he a cutie!


Here are a couple of my recent Goodwill finds:



I found these two bowls three weeks or so ago. They are hand crafted Japanese pottery. The design is Wild Iris. I am sure they aren't worth anything really, but their simple design and their shape and size was appealing to me. I think I paid $2.00 each for them. They are in perfect shape, no chips and look like there were brand new.


This is a magnetic board. I paid $2.00 for it. And really I would have never bought it although I am one of those people who has my refrigerator full of clippings, comic strips, kids drawings, appointment reminders, and anything that catches my eye that a magnet will hold up on the fridge... so I could use more space for posting things. I wasn't looking for anything like that but this reached out and grabbed my attention.



This was attached to it, done on a piece of vellum paper. I suppose I was in a "Fortune Cookie wisdom" kind of mood that day also. Sometimes I struggle with things; not great big things, but those small things in my head; like purpose, and why are we here, and what is the big picture. Maybe I am the only one...

...Anyway, this caught my eye. It was like a message, on a day when I needed some voice of wisdom speaking to me, some direction, some God-inspired message just for me. Whoever thought I could find such a thing at Goodwill, and for only two dollars at that! I'd say that was quite a bargain!

It also included magnetic letters that said I LOVE MY LITTLE. I started wondering about the previous owner. Little what? For me it would mean, my little ones, kiddos. But I wondered why the person that had this before decided to get rid of it. Did they stop dreaming? Did they no longer love their little? Yes, I have such a small brain that these things cause me to ponder...Humor me, please...

...or did they catch that dream that they dared...and did the little get big...so the message no longer applied...

...maybe the motivation of the message worked so well for the prior owner they wanted to pass it along to someone they thought might need this bit of wisdom...

This is where I came in, searching through Goodwill for some source of inspiration. Some life changing Epiphany, some answers to those nagging questions that keep me up at night. So I bought it and it is now hanging on my kitchen wall, soon to be filled with comic strips that I find humorous or ironic. I will pass it daily and be reminded that in life, you should dare to dream, and you should always love your little_____!!!

I am sure that this post confirms what many of you have always believed about me...

I am a little nutty!! Some of you are saying, "More than a little nutty!"

But if you made it this far, at least it was interesting to you!!!

Or, like a freak show, you had to keep reading to see just how strange I do become!!!

Either way, thanks for visiting...tomorrow I may be medicated and the post may actually make sense...LOL!(not really, I'm not on medication, unless you count midol one week a month!) OH! TMI!! Sorry!
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• Tuesday, December 2, 2008 - Tagged

Posted By Katie

I have been tagged !!

Rule~ 1. Link the person who tagged you.

Rule~2. Post the rules on your blog.

Rule~3. Write 6 random things about yourself.

Rule~ 4. Tag 6 people at the end of your blog.

Rule~5. Let each person know that they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their Blog.

Rule #6 ~ Let the tagger know your entry is up.

I was tagged by :  http://www.homesteadblogger.com/homesteadprincess/119776/

6 Things about me :

1. I used to be vegitarian

2. I have one horse named Leo

3. I go to the barn 6 days a week

4. I love blue and green

5. I have dark skin

6. I wear soft lense contacts

People I am tagging:

http://www.homesteadblogger.com/goatgirl24/

http://www.homesteadblogger.com/profiles/CandyFoote/

http://www.homesteadblogger.com/doodlebugs/

Whoever wants to do it.

Thanks you Bekah for tagging me! I know I am bad.... I only tagged 3 people lol. Well bye!

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• 2008-Dec-2 - Attention Stargazers!!

Posted By Kim Wolf<>< in Homeschooling

Got this from my Farmer's Almanac e-newsletter...

Sky Watch

The planets and the Moon are putting on a show! For a few nights, brilliant Venus, bright Jupiter, and the crescent Moon blaze in a striking conjunction. They first formed their brilliant triangle last night, 15 degrees high, in the southwestern sky. The three celestial objectives will continue to stay close together as seen from Earth even though the planets are millions of miles away.
Read more Sky Watch! We provide the current and upcoming months free for our Almanac.com readers.

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• Monday, December 1, 2008 - A God Thing

Posted By m j

A God Thing.

I am seeing more and more of his hand work and ways.  Last night we discovered that our one female golden Gracie is pregnant!!!  We are so happy.  She was breed to our new golden male Alex.   We want this so bad.  You see both dogs are service dogs.  We have 2 families we want to help out with their puppies.  The both have children with special needs, where a service dog can help out.   My daughters and I train service dogs. 

Last night Tammy and her hubby one of the parents prayed that Gracie was going to have puppies.  That was night we discovered she was.  See a God thing.

Another was they were looking for a new place to have the children with special needs to ride horse.  Another God thing, because we have been praying about that for over a year.  See another God thing.

God sure is a great.  He puts us together to help one another.

God Bless, mj

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• 2008-Dec-1 - I have been tagged!!

Posted By m j

I have been tagged !!

Rule~ 1. Link the person who tagged you.

Rule~2. Post the rules on your blog.

Rule~3. Write 6 random things about yourself.

Rule~ 4. Tag 6 people at the end of your blog.

Rule~5. Let each person know that they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their Blog.

Rule #6 ~ Let the tagger know your entry is up.

I was tagged by :  http://www.homesteadblogger.com/avravounou/

6 Things about me :

1. I love animals and have many.

2. I am a young grandma. I am 39 years old with 2 and 1 more on the way.

3. I did not know how to cook or clean when I moved out on my own .

4. I love to grow veggies and can them.

5. My husband never know if we will have a new critter in our house when he comes home, .

6. I love to read in bed snuggling one of my dogs.

People I am tagging:

1. is  :   http://www.homesteadblogger.com/profiles/walkinginhisgrace/

2. is :  http://www.homesteadblogger.com/profiles/kjprice616/

3. is :  http://www.homesteadblogger.com/gabbie427/

4. is :   http://www.homesteadblogger.com/hopefulheart/

5. is :   http://www.homesteadblogger.com/abigasfarm/

6. is :   http://www.homesteadblogger.com/countrygirlsheartstr/

That is all . Hope I did it right.  God bless, mj

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• Monday, December 1, 2008 - Door-Warmer

Posted By Miss Jocelyn Dixon

Well, it’s here. December 2008. Wow, can you believe it? Only another 31 days and then it will be 2009, a new year, a new chapter. Growing In Grace Magazine just published their 11th issue for the month of December, and you will want to check out some of the great articles…. interview, reviews, giveaways, tutorials, education, and spiritual encouragement in December 2008.

I had a lot of fun making the sewing tutorial for one of my columns in GGM, and it took very little money, time, or skill. There were a total of three supplies, three snips, and three seams. I think it turned out so cute and is a lovely winter accent to our home for the winter months. It’s not just for “looks” either… it has a purpose and can help with heating-expenses. Read about the Door-Warmer AND how to make your own in my article at GGM: Portfolio de Couturier: Door Warmer

I imagine perhaps next year I will do one for autumn as well. There are so many fabrics to choose from for seasonal purposes. Making one that matches your bedroom would be so cute.

Blessings!


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• 2008-Dec-1 - 6 Things Tag

Posted By Kim Wolf<>< in Of Interest...

I was tagged by Nancy-Dearest...

Here are the rules:


Rule #1 ~ Link to the person that tagged you.
Rule #2 ~ Post the rules on your Blog.
Rule #3 ~ Write 6 random things about yourself.
Rule #4 ~ Tag 6 people at the end of your post.
Rule #5 ~ Let each person know that they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their Blog.                                                                                                                Rule #6 ~ Let the tagger know your entry is up.

Here are my 6 things:

1)  I play the hammered dulcimer, flute and Irish penny whistle.

2)  I'm 5'7"

3)  I'm a twin

4)  I used to smoke

5)  My dream vacation is 2 weeks (or more!) on a dude ranch!

6)  I have either sang (sung?) or played flute or dulcimer on 8 DVDs.

(I know what you're thinking...those studio earphones are SUCH a fashion statement!)

OK...here are my tags:

1)  http://jeneralities.com

2)  http://www.homesteadblogger.com/simplefolk

3)  http://www.homesteadblogger.com/nurseforlife

4)  http://teenytinycabin.blogspot.com

5)  http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/sisterchicksteph

6)  http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/momto4beauties

Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<><

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• 2008-Dec-1 - The Simple Woman's Daybook ~ #11 ~ 12/1/08

Posted By Kim Wolf<>< in The Simple Woman Daybook


FOR TODAY...


Outside my window...On this cold, gloomy morning the snow has just started to fall.  Even as I watch it seems that the flakes are getting a little bigger.  Forecasters say we 'may' have up to 3" today.  It is - after all - December in Ohio.


I am thinking...that I will miss our wonderful church family that we love so dearly.  After 12-1/2 years of making the 70 mile round trip at least twice a week to our church, we have decided to look for a church closer to home after the first of the year.  It's breaking our hearts, but it has been confirmed in all 4 of our hearts.  I will, however, still attend the Seminary.


I am thankful for...a warm house on a cold, blustery day.


From the learning rooms...We are OFF for CHRISTmas break!  In our homeschool, we take off June, July and December instead of August.  Our long, wonderful break has begun!


From the kitchen...I'm considering potato soup.  My grandma's VERY simple Kentucky Depression-era version.


I am wearing...thick, warm socks, flannel pj bottom and a sweat shirt.  It's a cold morning!


I am creating...an empty corner so that Jenna and I can put up our CHRISTmas tree today!  Woohoo!!!


I am going...to the local Old Order farm and get my milk and brown eggs before the snow really kicks in.  I underestimated how much milk we would use during the Thanksgiving weekend and we squeaked out the last of it last night.


I am reading...Bible; still reading Pride & Prejudice.


I am hoping...that we will find great opportunities for ministry in which-ever church we 'land' in.


I am hearing...the T.V.


Around the house...Jenna and I will be putting up most of the CHRISTmas decorations today!  That's ALWAYS so much better than taking them down.


One of my favorite things...good food, fellowship and deep conversation with trusted Christian friends.


A few plans for the rest of the week:  putting up CHRISTmas decorations - inside and out, getting Maggie (our dog) trimmed, making some time to spend w/my mother.  Unfortunately, it may include a funeral as my 94 year old uncle (my mom's last brother out of 13 siblings) will probably pass away today or tomorrow.  I'm praying that the Lord works in ways that we don't understand while he is uncounscious and that somehow he will be Heaven-bound.


Here is picture thought I am sharing...

~ CHRISTmas Eve 2004 we had 21" of snow!!

Be sure to enjoy other Daybooks by clicking on:  http://thesimplewoman.blogspot.com/

Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<><

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• Monday, December 1, 2008 - God's Will, Really?

Posted By Miss Jocelyn Dixon

Sadly over the past year I have heard of many deaths, from both friends and strangers. It truly saddens my heart. It always confuses me when others who are trying to comfort those grieving say that it was God’s will for their loved one to die, especially a child. You can read just about any book in the Bible and you will find either a verse or a reference to the fact that God wants His people to prosper and live long and happy lives. One of the well-known verses to back this up is in Jeremiah. I know it by heart as it’s one of Mother Dear’s favourite verses.

Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.”

God knows exactly what kind of life he wants us to have. He wants us to have thoughts of peace and not of evil, and to have an expected end or in other words a long life full of hope. When people say that it was God’s will for a child or a father to die I fear they are completely wrong. Whenever I hear someone say this I think of Job. I have been reading through the entire Bible for over a year now, just letting God speak to me as I read, and the Book of Job really comforted me in more ways than one. I thoroughly enjoyed reading it. So many terrible things happened to Job that definitely weren’t God’s perfect will for his life, but God was in control the entire time.

I believe it is a falsehood, however comforting it may be, that it is God’s will for any of His people to die without having lived a full life, but because sin has entered our world when Adam and Eve stepped out from God’s perfect world our lives will be not be perfect.

However we know that all things work together for good (Romans 8:28). We know that He is always in control. We know that He will never forsake us. We know we have His promise of His return and will be reunited with those who are His children.

The Bible says in this world we will have tribulation, but be of good cheer because He has overcome the world (John 16:33)!

Be still. Know He is God.


originally posted in the October issue of GGM: Thorns & Roses: God’s Will

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