Life and times of a new farmer/homesteader

The Twelve Steps, and the Promises.

{ 09:27 , Monday, January 22, 2007 } { 3 comments } { Link }
This is here for me, but it may be good for anyone who has or knows someone who has a problem with addiction.

Some I have known wonder how I got away from drugs and alcohol.  Really, it's a long story, which I will tell someday.  But to begin, it would be good to mention the Twelve steps, and the Promises.  It's good to know that all is not hopeless for us addicts, and anyone who has been touched by addiction (directly, or indirectly,) should be aware of the twelve steps.  The word alcohol in the first step (the only place alcohol is mentioned,) can be replaced by drugs, gambling, food, sex, or just about anything.  I think you will get the jist of it.  Italics are from the original text, not my edit.  I didn't edit this at all.

Twelve Steps

1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.

2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

9. Made a direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

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My favorite part of any meeting (and I have been to alot of them,) is the reading of the promises, from the Big Book of A.A., pages 83-84:

If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are half way through. We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness. We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know peace. No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our experience can benefit others. That feeling of uselessness and selfpity will disappear. We will lose interest in selfish things and gain interest in our fellows. Self-seeking will slip away. Our whole attitude and outlook upon life will change. Fear of people and of economic insecurity will leave us. We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us. We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.

Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us—sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them.

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If you know someone with alcohol or drug problems, get a copy of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, and put it somewhere they can find it.  When the time is right for them, they will find it, they will read it, and hopefully they will begin the path to recovery.


If it weren't for A.A., I wouldn't be where I am today.


Blessings,


Raymond





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{ 03:36 , Tuesday, January 23, 2007 } { Posted by Anonymous }
My dad gave my son his original copy when my boy was 11 years old and just about to enter junior high school. My son did not need the book(no problems with addictions) but it came in handy for him when he met kids who did have problems. He never accused but read the book to understand.

I have been to a few alanon meetings. They were okay but not what I was looking for. My dad loves his AA meetings and looks forward to them every week. After 1 year sobriety, he went on to council men who were in jail on drug and alchol charges. AA saved his life and ours. Did I mention he has been sober for 19 years now?

Thanks so much for having the courage to share some of your story.

Brightest blessings

Heather

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{ 08:46 , Tuesday, January 23, 2007 } { Posted by 4timesblessed }
Thank you for sharing this information.

AA

{ 10:08 , Tuesday, January 23, 2007 } { Posted by mccrjill }
700 Club's show yesterday was about addicts in Lima, Peru - you can watch the segment on CBN.com if you want to. I think you can watch just that one segment by clicking on it. Jill
Congratulations on using the 12-step program and having a much better and free life!

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