Fair warning... I'm back.
Ok, here's the deal. I'm only changing three things about how and what I have been blogging.
One is a warning, which I have posted on my profile. This blog is not suitable for young children or those who don't want to think.
I will challenge your assumptions, I will question your beliefs, I will
use occasionally coarse language, and I will require that you
think. Don't worry, it's not that hard. But if you don't
want to think, you just want to go along believing what your told and
not be required to explain it, this blog is not the place for
you. Remove me from your friends list; forget I exist. I
will make posts that are strictly about recipes, handyman skills, my
daily wanderings, questionaires, song lyrics, poems, etc, and these
postings should be
safe for just about everyone. They will be obvious from the post
title. I will also talk about politics, religeon, society, God
(in all his/hers/its incarnations and forms,) spirituality, poker, my
past, and other things you may not want to read or even think
about. Save both of us the trouble of misunderstanding me by
simply not reading these posts.
Two is sarcasm. I will make it obvious when I am being
sarcastic. I can be, I will be, and I'm not going to explain it
every time I am. Read the whole post. When you get to the
bottom, or maybe even sooner, I will note that I am being
sarcastic. I don't believe everything I write. I'm not
going to point out things I do believe, but I will point out things I
don't. Normally, there is still a point to be made.
Three. This one is trickier. I am going to talk a great
deal more about being a recovering alcoholic and drug addict.
This won't be pretty. It will be fact, as well as truth as I see
it. I have told a few people that I have been to hell, and I'm
not certain that this statement always comes across clear. Lots
of people have been to hell on this earth, mine was drugs and
alcohol. I struggled with those demons for 27 years of my 38 year
life, from drinking at age eight to sobriety at age 35. If one
person doesn't try something that will put him or her though what I
went through or worse because of what I speak, it will all be worth
it. I much prefer to bare my mind than my soul, but sometimes one
has to bare their soul to make a point. Illlicit drugs are
bad. Alcohol, also bad, at least for me. Addiction is one
form of hell. There are others. I will make this clear in
the near future. It won't be pretty, but it will be honest.
Anyways, you can mostly expect from me what you have already
seen. It will bother some of you. But if the responses I
have received over the last few days are any indication, I will
inspire, amuse, educate, and entertain far more people than I
offend. I haven't changed. If you haven't liked me to this
point, you won't like me now. If you have enjoyed what I write,
you should continue to do so. I don't expect you to agree with
everything I say, or even anything
I say, but I do expect you to think. When you have questions,
need clarification, or just want vigorous debate, let me know. I
can change my mind and my beliefs, if properly convinced. I can
accept beliefs other than my own, and agree to disagree. Can you?
I would rather have a few good friends that know who I am than hundreds
of acquaintances that know me not at all. I would rather be hated
for who I am than loved for who I am not.
This is my blog. This is my mind, heart, and soul, bared for any and all to see.
Walk in peace,
Raymond
Good, at least you weren't away for very long at all!
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01:36
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Monday, January 22, 2007
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shekinah
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I also have to say that I admire your openness (excuse spelling here!) and frankness and well, quite frankly yes, all of us are very different in fact we are all unique....There is not one person on this earth who is the same. Yes, we all have different opinions and struggles and so on and we are all free to voice these opinions/what we think.
I do admire your openness and I also enjoy a lot of your entries and therefore keep writing.
There are times that I guess that I am also not afraid to say what I think and I will also and probably myself have put entries on here that offend others but when it comes to anything **especially** to do with the Lord then I am not going to sit back and be quiet. I will pray and think before writing something though especially in reply to another post - well, most of the time that is :)
I do hate some of the backbiting that has happened on here from time to time and unfortunately you get this with most blogs but I do wish that sometimes people would sit down and think before they write a reply especially if it is a reply to a post that is to that particular person(s) offensive!.
I have probably gone off on a tangent here but keep posting and I do admire you as I said earlier for both your openness and frankness and your spirit!
Blessings
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YAY!
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02:04
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Monday, January 22, 2007
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rlhayden
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You're back already!!! That was a short break - thanks!!! :) I'm sure I offend as well but you've inspired me to realize that there's no reason to hide and not post my true feelings because they are MY thoughts and beliefs! You rock - glad you're back!
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02:26
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Monday, January 22, 2007
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andeemomof3
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I'm glad you will continue to post. We should be able to say whatever we want, as our blogs are ways to express ourselves. If someone doesn't want to read you, there's always the little X in the upper right hand corner.
I enjoy your posts, and hope you continue to be yourself, as you would and have been, around here. I find your topics interesting, and haven't been offended by anything.
Welcome back Ray!
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04:29
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Monday, January 22, 2007
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Anonymous
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Glad your time away was short. I have to agree with all the other comments. We can not please everyone with our thoughts and feelings. If the other person can't accept that then they always have the option of not listening( or reading in this case).
Addiction is hell and not just for the person who is addicted. I am the daughter of a recovering alcholic(19 years now) and the sister of a meth addict. It's horrible when you do not know where someone you love is. The thoughts of what they might be doing can at times, overwhelm you but then you just have to offer it up to the powers that be and hope for the best.
I used to blog regularly(sp) on this site but found that the rude and uncalled for comments were too much for me. I am happy where I am now because people seem to be a bit more accepting. I hate to say it but a lot of good people( pagan, christian and otherwise) have left the blog because of this problem. I say GOOD JOB to you. You are staying and standing up for what you believe in.
Keep up the wonderful posts, I always look forward to reading them.
Brightest blessings
Heather
Hi Ray
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11:06
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Monday, January 22, 2007
} { Posted by
Anonymous
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I just left a blog site because the people there couldn't handle strong thoughts and opinions that did not agree with theirs. I find your blog interesting even though I might not agree with everything you have to say. I think it's cool that you have enough guts to be yourself.
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I struggle very hard to understand my sister who is an alcoholic and drug addict. I hope your future posts on that subject will help me see things differently.
As for blog content - I like reading about people being true to themselves. I like diversity. I dislike hatred, venom and big ol' pity parties :-) (I have four children - I get my whining quota off the computer LOL)
March to the beat of your own drummer and make no apologies for it.
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