Bloggy ills and Limiting things…

I did see the trouble with the link posting, and my entry graphics are gone.   And the weird smileys…but, it’s working for posting, and that’s the big thing I guess.

Over the weekend we talked about how we limit the exposure to things outside our homestead, both for the homestead itself, as well as for our family.  We all agreed that even with the talk from folks who say you can’t live in a cave or live so secluded that you don’t have some form of exposure to what is out and about in the world today, as a parent today striving to raise Godly children into Godly adults, you almost have to do some limiting in your daily lives.

Take, for example, television.  There is virtually nothing of any redeeming value to be found on television.  Even with some satellite dish full of a zillion channels, nothing stands out as worthwhile when you truly proof it against what is important in your life.  We have found a few nature shows to be a good watch, and a few other programs scattered here and there, but for the most part, it’s simply a useless box.  We have had cable, we have had satellite and now we have pretty much nothing…once in a while we get the PBS station in, but that’s all that tunes in with the television way out here.

Radio, would be another example.  We listen to little there, although I do enjoy picking up hints here and there from Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace show.  And we have listened to a few good Christian stations, but they tend to get farther into CCM, which we prefer not to make a habit of listening to.  And the ads that bombard us form every station, Christian and other, are not worth the time.  It’s as bad as television commercials.

We limit what reading materials come onto the homestead, and from there it is limited in access to our children.  They are simply too young to discern value and true worth, but they are growing in that respect.  We steer clear from fiction more often than not and prefer to gain our information through biography accounts and articles.  Yes, you can find anything to back up your personal point of view, but if you source out materials and collect varying viewpoints, the truth is often very easily to find then.  That is what we teach our children to do…never follow one person’s viewpoint but try to find others with honest sharings, and especially go directly to the source themselves…a biography (not even the so-called ‘authorized biographies’ tell the whole truth as much as the writings of the person themselves will).

We limit the seeds used in our gardening efforts to only non-hybrid and heirloom.  We have hopes to do this with any feed crops we might plant in the future as well.  For us, it simply makes sense to keep it basic and simple here as that is what we strive for…we want to save our seeds and keep our homestead going without so much outside sourcing of materials and supplies.  And we like to know what went into the items we are using for feed…for ourselves and our animals, who will one day be feed themselves.

We limit the outside activities a great deal around here.  The men are off the homestead for work and have enough outside influences bombing their face and faith daily.  The children and I are more than content to do what we need to here, and often don’t need to go into town for much at all.  We try to make a trip every other week at the least, to do our mailing (rural postal service around here is, well, lacking, to be kind…sometimes mail never makes it where it’s heading).  When we do grocery shop it’s a ‘date night’ for DH and I usually and we might stop for a bite to eat or a treat.  A trip through any store with the children along is also an outing (and you can imagine the stares and head-counting we get with that!)  and we use these trips to teach the children different things…the girls learn about grocery shopping more from our bulk purchases more than from shopping trips; they learn about fabric selection and sewing ideas and tips when we shop for fabric, etc.  There are lessons everywhere.  Some lessons we prefer to avoid…like parading the dress fashion of the world at large before the eyes of the younger children, the video and music selections cursing our ears in some stores, the feast of gluttony in many areas of life as we wander through this store or that.

We limit our exposure in church as well…something that will shock many a Christian, I’m sure.  Most churches we have visited are nothing less than the world and it’s activities being held under the banner of a church name.  The activities include ‘themed’ Sundays and ‘Children’s Church/Junior Church’ classes, or mega-designed custom Sunday School classes….every age group and inclination can find a class to suit what they are looking for (ladies, couples, young couples, keen-agers, mens class, singles class, etc).  When you have to spend the morning exposed to the legs and thighs and bellies of the class teachers, or worse yet — the children of the deacons and other elders of the church, there is no reverence there.  At least not reverence that shows.  They boys’ style of dress is hardly better…so much goth styling, baggy-to-the-knees pants with various waistbands showing, logo t-shirts with totally inappropriate pictures and sayings plastered on them…and it’s all right there in full view of anyone and everyone.  No, we are not at church to focus on the doings or wearings of others, but some are rather hard to avoid sad to say.  We prefer to hold our own service and praise/worship here at home as opposed to submitting our children to that sort of thing.  We don’t give out candy for verses learned, we don’t play silly games to keep their interest…we simply read and study The Word of God and apply it to things in our daily lives.  We discuss what lessons we should learn form the lives of those in Scripture, what blessings they received for following The Lord, what curses befell those who stepped outside His Path, what methods He uses to bring His Children back into His Ways, etc.  Truly, and sadly, the children have learned far more Scripture being ‘home churched’ than they did in church elsewhere.  That is what too many churches have moved to these days.

We "shelter" our children because they are young and impressionable and while they will one day be the salt and light of the earth for the Lord, right now they are children and do not deserve that innocence to be taken away from them by the unbelieving or false-salvation messages that permeate our world these days.  One day, they will be strong and able to stand in their faith with convictions of their own from the Lord and they will be able to take in the strong meat of The Word and discern the good from the garbage themselves.  Until then, though, they are to be nurtured and raised under a strong Word and brought up to have a deep reverential fear of The Lord.  They will be tramped on enough in their older years, but for now, they deserve the honor of being children, soaking in all the good that The Word and The Father have to offer them.  

It is for their lives that we choose to ‘shelter’ and ‘limit’ life around us.   We are not moving backwards in time as some think.  We are not raising children without any knowledge of the world around them.  We are raising children who will one day help to change the world they live in for the better we pray, and children who will be strong and convicted in their own faith to one day stand against all that comes in opposition toward them.  That is what soldiers of The Lord do…they stand strong, never changing, never breaking in the winds around them.  Some people can’t do that or won’t do that.  They choose to call it ‘bending’ when it is really just breaking.  They change as the winds do, ever following a false path, never relying completely on The Scriptures and The Father to walk them straight and narrow.  They prefer the broad path and that is leading them as sheep to a cliff, one walking over after the other.  I want The Lord to lead my children in His Path and keep them on the narrow way that isn’t leading them over that cliff with those who lack strength and true wisdom and conviction.

That is why to call us "sheltered" or any other terminology of the day, is actually a great blessing for us.  And to know that my family walks in agreement with that blessing is far more than most mothers can lay claim to these days.

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One Response to “Bloggy ills and Limiting things…”

  1.    Jacque Dixon Says:

    Thank you for the comment you left me on my homeschool blog! It is so encouraging to touch people through blogging.

    I love this post. It is something that so many of us are experiencing, and you have said it so well!

    I was surprised to see the girls' Maidens blog linked on your sidebar. Jocelyn (Lois on Maidens), who created it, was standing here next to me and thought it was neat to see it.

    Well, many blessings to you, and I will be reading more often. Thank you for letting me know you read and leaving me your hsb2 address.

    In Him-

    Jacque

    http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/JacqueDixonSoulRestES/

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