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The Bigger Half
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Does the school bus freak you out?
As a homeschool parent do you ever get a cold chill when you see the government school bus pass by?  Do you ever just pull your kids in close and thank God they're there with you, that they've been near you all day?  
         I dunno... maybe I'm weird.  The school bus has become to me a symbol of the sad state our society is in.  I do sigh sadly when it passes by.  It seems so logical once you're standing outside the system, but to those inside the system sticking your child in a big vehicle crammed full of other children nearly every day of his/her young life to transport them to a goverment institution to spend the day being comformed into the image of the State and then relying on that same vehicle to deliver them home just in time for supper... somehow this is the norm.  Somehow this is logical and okay.  What?  Are you kidding?  How?  Why?  I've heard from a lot of parents how horrible they felt putting their 5 or 6yr old on the bus for the first time.  But they got used to it.  Some even talk about how they miss their little ones being near them all day.  I want to shake them (in love)!  It doesn't have to be this way!
           Don't get me started on goverment schools...   I'm just thinking of the buses right now.  A friend told me just the other day of an accident that occured when she and her sister were riding the bus home from school when they were kids.  The bus hit a little girl.  The Mom came screaming out into the street after her but it was too late.  The bus was there a long time and it was getting late.  The children on the bus ended up walking home.  Can you imagine?
            The school bus that delivers children in my parents' neck of the woods drives so fast over the hills and around the bends... My parents have tried to keep up and were unable.  They live on a very narrow dirt road and the bus has nearly collided with the trash truck because the driver acts like he's the only one on the road... granted, there isn't room for anyone else.  Anyway, scary.
            I just read a blog post about a woman who was waiting in her living room with her youngest when she heard the bus stop and drop off the 16 kids that were suppose to get off at that stop.  She waited for her three but only two arrived.  They searched in vain, calling the school and 911, for 45 minutes before they found him hiding in a neighbor's yard.  He was six.  He'd gotten into a fight with a friend on the bus and was afarid of getting in trouble at home (even though the parent's don't spank).

It's not that homeschooler's are exempt from these kinds of occurences.  Accidents happen.  Children hide.  You might someday turn around and notice one of your children missing.  You could meet anyone on a narrow dirt road while in your own vehicle.  But man... there's just something not right about this school bus thing!  I could never, ever, put my kids on a bus!  Call me overprotective, but I want my kids near me.  I don't want to send them off for the better part of their young lives to make it on their own, being indocrinated by their peers and teachers I only talk to a few times a year...   I want them near me not just because I don't want them there.  I want them near me because I love them, I enjoy them, they are blessings to me.  It's my God-given responsibility and privlage to raise them, not to pass them off to someone else!  God will hold Bobby and I accountable.

Just felt like ranting.  You can go back to whatever it was you were doing now.

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Sunday, November 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by melaniedawn


I agree with much of your post. I want to shake my next-door-neighbor (in love, as you say) and tell her she doesn't have to put her 5-year-old daughter on that monstrous vehicle every day. While backing up, the bus that picks up the kindergarteners knocked down the corner street sign and my hubby ended up putting it back up. And I have seen some of these bus drivers driving the way you describe: pulling out in front of other drivers, speeding, taking corners too fast,etc. But you also couldn't pay me enough to do that job; I'd be a nervous wreck worrying that I might get in an accident and hurt the children. And then when the children get older, there is the hateful way some of them treat the others, especially among the girls, it seems. Yes, I do want to pull my children close when I see, hear, or think of the school bus, and I thank God that we live in a country where I don't have to put them on one.


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Sunday, November 30, 2008 - Hello!

Posted by Anonymous


Both of my daughters went to public school and rode the bus most of the time. God placed it on our hearts to homeschool them in 2005 they were starting the 4th and the 7th grade. I now look back and thank God for everyday that I get to spend with them teaching them and unschooling at times.

I agree that the school bus is a very scary place but for some reason I just felt like they were safer on the bus on cold snowy days:( I am now greatful that they get to wake up at home and they can begin their day with their mom.

If I could do things over I would but I can see Gods bigger plan and It did include public school. My daughters would Never go back and they see that homeschooling is the best for them. They don't ever wonder what public school is like. I have some dear friends.... their children beg every school year wanting to be placed in public school they think they are missing something great. My daughters try to explain but I think some T.V. shows or movies make public school look exciting?

I am so grateful that God put us where He wanted us and I am very thankful.

~ a very blessed homeschool mom


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Sunday, November 30, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Jonash2004


The mom across the street alternates sending one or both of her twin boys away for half-days. So a small yellow school bus picks them up every day.

It makes me sad to see the small boys trudging back and forth with their backpacks.

I never wanted to ride the bus when I was little; I can remember my mom asking me.

Ashley


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Sunday, November 30, 2008 - dukygurl NY

Posted by Anonymous


I totally agree. There were children waithing for a school bus once and one choose to run back across a street once...Tara my friend watched her little brother's buddy die because a car struck him before the bus arrived. I was in an accident as a teen on a bus I can not see sending my sweet kids to be raised by someone else. They are way to special and important. each day I get to see how they grow and what they learn. . I like this way better even if it means I have to jump though hoops for NY state.


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Monday, December 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by gokings13


My dh used to test seat belts vs no seat belts on school buses.
He would crash the bus into a concrete wall, or 'roll the bus' like it would in a side impact collision.

****Know this. The driver gets a seatbelt. It is against the law for the driver not to wear the seat belt. The driver is the only one who gets, a seatbelt**********

When my dh would read the "damage done to the crash test dummies" 90% of the time, the dummy "died". These are test done on buses moving UNDER 30mph.
The driver, always lived, and sustained minimal damage.
Why?
Seat belt.
The 10% that didn't die, sat in the middle of the bus, on an aisle seat. Those dummies sustained major damage, but not death.
SO you ask, why don't schools have them installed?

Because: (A) It's too expensive (B) They would have to have someone help the kids buckle the belts and make sure the kids don't hit each other with the belts (C) They would have to hire someone to ride on the bus and monitor the kids and that cost too much money.

Bottom line
Money is more important than kids safety.

Laura


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Monday, December 1, 2008 - Wow

Posted by Daisyblend


They still don't have seat belts on buses? Sheesh. I remember that being a hot topic when I was a kid riding the bus (my sis and I were pulled from gov. schools after 4th & 6th grades). I figured they would have done it by now. It probably would cost a lot of money, but here's an alternative that would save a bundle... Shut down all the government schools and everyone raise their own kids.

Now, see, I think that's a brilliant idea but no one ever listens to me. ;)

With the money you'd save in taxes every year, you could afford to make sure you have the proper sized homeschool bus with safetly seats for your newborns through teens (what else is the gov. gonna focus on but car seat laws when they no longer have schools?). As an added bonus you'd save on school clothes because your kids wouldn't have to compete for popularity. Without a free daycare Moms would have to come home, out of the workforce, to raise their children, freeing up jobs for working Dads. If they work real hard and prioritze a bit, they might find that eventually Dad can come home, too, and the family can work together from home to provide for their needs... Raising kids isn't just for moms, you know.

Now you've made me late for morning chores...

Edited by Daisyblend on Monday, December 1, 2008 at 08:55


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Monday, December 1, 2008 - Trish in Ny

Posted by Anonymous


I can't imagine putting Jorri on a bus, and not seeing her all day. I know there are times when I say that these girls are driving me crazy but what would I do with out the constant "MOMMY" needs and endless fascination with the world? I think they make me more fun and make life more full....Jorri is sitting here spelling out all the words on the page...LOL. See that is just fun.


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Monday, December 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous


That was my child you were refereing to in your post!

I used to home school all my kiddos full time....it became a real stuggle...My oldest was home schooled until 5th grade. I had 4 boys and postpartum depression. We moved to a bigger house and the school is just around the corner. So I put them all in! It was a blessing for us all,I prayed long and hard first.
I had 2 more kiddos (girls) and home schooled my then 3rd grader last year.
My goal is to home school the younger ones full time again in the next year or so. I have had the opportunity to take the girls on field trips ect. My 4th grader is in orchasta at school and scouts. We do a lot of family things together. Public school is not a bad place....its been a blessing.
Peace in Christ,
Georgiann


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