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Hubby isn't helping I clean and he turns around and gets things dirty, won't throw trash away. He puts tea bags in the sink and leaves them to stain the sink NOT under the sink in the trash!!! I have talked with him and he has smart remark and come back for it. Told him I am NOT his slave and or his Mother I am a wife and it stresses me out when I am trying to clean and keep the house cleaned. He won't say anything but he continues his ways!!!

           I am at totally wits ends he is in bed sleeping and I am up yet. I spend alot of nights up now he is sleeping trying to clean so he can dirty things when he gets up early in the morning or throughout tomorrow again. I hope to get a little sleep either with him or back on the couch where I spend alot of my nights it seems. Anyways, I'll try what was suggested but he is so set and he wasn't made to clean and his mother's house isn't by all means clean there are spider webs in the bathroom by the bathroom door that I can reach NASTY!!! The kitchen is furthest from clean as is the inside of the refrigerator though mine isn't clean but nothing like hers I believe!!! Anyways, I am going to try and lay down with him. If I end up again and not on the couch I will be back again online. Take Care and will try and keep you updated. I'll sneak online and update you!

                                        Denene

I have a service dog "Lady" and she knows things are tense and she comes and checks on me and keeps a eye on me knowing I am upset and when I cry she will come and put her head on my leg like she is having a pity party for me. It is so cute but if it wasn't for her I don't know what I would do or done I know something horrible.

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{ 01:08 , Sunday, July 27, 2008 } { Posted by smmagers }

I do not know what to say other than I am sorry and been there. My husband learned what I REALLY do in a day when I broke my leg and had surgery and was bed ridden for almost 4 months. He could not believe what all I did once he and our 2 girls at home had to take over. I do not suggest breaking a leg, but it sure opened his eyes, now he helps a lot. I also have service dogs, we have 4 at the moment. 2 are getting ready to retire and 2 are to take over. 1 is mine and 1 is my daughters. I have added you to my friend list. God Bless, mj

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{ 02:21 , Monday, July 28, 2008 } { Posted by gabbie427 }

I am sorry things are still tense around the house!!!! My hubby was never taught to clean either, and his mother's house......well I won't eat there!! If that tells you anything!!! LOL It isn't a nice relaxing place to visit, at all. Nasty is how I would describe it. Spiderwebs are nothing compared to this house and the piles and piles of crud towering up to the tops of door casings in certain rooms!

Matthew didn't "like" to clean and help out around the house (sometimes you think don't clean, because I can do it better anyhow, but just clean up after YOURSELF as you go along ok??? LOL I know....been there. Like not throwing something away, but leaving it on the counter 5 inches from the trash can. Yeah!!!), but he soon learned that we all do things we don't like, and if he loved me.....he would do the things to help me out, to make things easier for me.

If you don't feel comfortable in talking with him, then write him a letter. (I am a letter writer myself) There are times when things are hard to say, and you are afraid to get "the look", so if you feel comfortable doing so, write him a letter telling him how you feel and what you need from him around the home, getting a job, and what you need from him emotionally!

I am praying for you dear. After I read yoru first blog about this, my heart ached for you!! I have been praying since I read the first post. Keep us posted here, and if you want to talk, I am only a PM away!

God's Blessings,
Amy Jo