~ONE DAY AT A TIME~

ALOT OF MISC.

  I lived in this house before we got married. I bought this house in 1991 and we got married in 2005. It has been my house and feels like myself yet more less.

          When we got married Don (My husband) would think we need things to survive a nucluar war and etc. Guns for protecting ourselves and a bunch of them and etc. We had trouble saving $ we didn't have our priorities right when he had a good job and we spent and foolishly.

            We are now I hope getting to where we are settling down more and seeing what we really need and want. I am going to talk with him about things like making this house more (OUR) home and making changes that WE want and need to make it best for us to feel more home and more comfortable and etc. It will feel more our home and less yet my home.

                     I would like to see fixing the house up painting, and making the rooms that are extra's a office and den area and also spare beds for family his that comes up once in awhile so they have a comfortable place to sleep. Fixing up and decorating and etc.

            I am ready to make it a home and settle down. I am going to start a job after being at home since 1991 after closing my childcare and being told I couldn't work due to my social security and medicare which is not true. I can work but limited on what I can earn. My family back when I was single was controlling me and my money because of me being disabled.

              I am a adult and can make decisions and mistakes but I learn eventually and I am ready to grow up since I never had a chance too and work and save and make a house a real home. I am so excited for the future.

                We are in big debt and paying the debts back is a big priority right now especially his mom. We will pay back and pay bills and hope save back for emergencies and save back to do things around the house we want and need too but also hope eventually we can take even if a cheaper honeymoon take one we never got one when we was married and had a trip away for "US" alone. We need to do this. We was going to go with his family to California what a honeymoon sharing a trip and room with his family and motel.

             I'll keep you updated on things. This is a big step for me and I am feeling so more mature and responsible. I don't know what happened but I was watching some shows on cleaning house and some other shows last night and today and they have really changed me.

          Must close but will write as soon as I can. Take Care!

                                         Denene