From Mess maker to Homemaker

   I am recovering from back surgery. I want to do some stuff and there are some I can do or will do just being very careful. I though have alot I can't and won't do usually but now he is leaving it on me more and more and then he complains I am doing more and more for myself well duh he won't help anymore and leaves messes and the cat's and dogs get into the food on the stove and food gets stale left out. Duh! He knows that don't know why he won't put things away it isn't that hard at least for someone that isn't recovering from surgery.

          There is possible storms coming our way and now cleaning up after hubby and we are suppose to go to see his mom. yeah right dream on! I won't be going again there and that is fine and he will be mad at me and take it out on me that is fine I am just going to ignore his attitude and tantrum. He wants to go see his mom or go live he can go that is fine with me and he can leave the marriage I love him but his attitude like a kid and his pouting must stop. He is 38 almost 39 years old. He is a momma baby he has a uncle living there with her to help where she needs it since his dad died. 

         Well the storms are coming in and there is a good chance our lights will go off. They seem to always go off. I'll write later or tomorrow possibly depending on what happens with going to see his mom. Take Care and will write more soon!

                                                         Denene

After being at the home of a classmate and his wife and family I came home and felt horrible and bad about being home. My home isn’t clean and organized and he works full-time and she is also a full-time pharmacist and 2 kids and twins on the way and yet their house was so clean and organized. This sure motivated me! I am on doctor’s care due to back surgery but I will do what I can now and being very careful so I don’t mess my back up and have to go through surgery sooner. Here is a list of what I want do not necessarily in this exact order:

1. Clean all rooms & Organize

2. Clean and Organize garage and also storage shed!!

3. Holes in backyard filled

4. Plants in front yard and or on porch to make it look like someone lives here!!

5. Paint inside and outside of house!!

6. Fix walls before painting that have holes in them!

7. Decorate and put themes to each of the rooms!

8. Replace furniture torn, missing pieces and or broken!

     I am going to be more responsible of a wife and clean and organize and going to keep it this way once! I won’t also live on the computer or in bed a lot or all the time or most even of the time. I am going to change but as of right now I will do what I can when I can with recovering from surgery and the back pain and the medications make me stay in bed and not able to do a lot but when I get able too on good days and times I will work around the house being very careful to not do to much. My life and my home and marriage is going to change for the better thanks to the weekend and that one trip to my classmates home and he and his wife! We are going to work together and we are going to get and keep our home alot more cleaner and organized!

    Well enough for now I want and need to to get some sleep. I have had a busy weekend with our 25 year class reunion this weekend! Take Care and will write more as soon as I can!

                                     Denene